Ethiopia Bound

Our adoption journey

A Quick Stop at Home July 23, 2008

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Well we’re home…for a night! We just got back from a week at the cabin with family. It was very nice, but not too relaxing! Seven children is a constant party for the little cousins. 

David and I are off to New Brunswick to pick up his new mini cooper tomorrow morning! Dave’s been to the East coast, but the farthest east I’ve ventured is Ottawa. I’m really looking forward to the drive home. We’ve chosen to go through the states so that we can hit Cedar Point (large amusement park) on the way home! It should be a great little road trip!

Adoption land is quiet right now. Not too many referrals lately (that I know of). We got an update that let us know the wait is long and will continue. We thought six months would be tough – hopefully it’s not another six, but it could be. 

I’ll be sure to post pictures of the trip when we get home!

 

Cousin visit July 13, 2008

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My kids are pretty excited that their cousins from B.C. are visiting for a couple of weeks. We are too! What a great time to catch up with each other and watch the kids renew their bonds. Today is a big family gathering at my parents. The pool is ready, the food is ready, now I just have to clean my kitchen and wash my floors so we can get over there! :)  

Peanut came home from camp yesterday. Boy, did we miss her. And it turns out she missed us too! She and Budder talked non-stop for at least the first 1 1/2 hours on the ride home from camp. It was music to my ears!

Adoption front is silent. I’m in a weird place with it. I feel like I’m on a hilltop. I could go either way. I’m wishful, or I’m numb. I suppose the numbness that occasionally creeps in is a natural defense. Cool it for awhile so we can cope with other things. So I’ll swim the day away with my nieces and nephew and try not to think about the children who will swim at the gathering next year… :)

 

Garage Sales are Stupid July 3, 2008

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O.K. that is strong language, but my oh my they are sooooo much work! We had our first (and definitely last) garage sale today. It didn’t help that I have the flu and thought I’d loose my cookies every ten minutes or so. The only good part is that all the stuff is out of my house so we can start on our renovations in fall. The bad part is that half of it is still left in my garage and now I have to “do” something with it. I’m really hoping that the local self-help will come and pick it up! I don’t know if they do that, but right about now I think it would be a “win-win” for everyone. They’d get lots of stuff they can sell and I’d get my garage back! Dave figured we could run the sale one more day but have a “free” sale with donations accepted just so that we clear the stuff. I’d be interested in that, but my stomach is still turning and I don’t know if I do it another day! The idea for the sale was Peanut’s. She thought it’d be a good way to earn money for the kids flights. Well, it made a little dent.

On the adoption front things are sadly quiet. We still have no idea where we are in terms of waiting. I’m  still hoping that the referral will come this summer. Anyone hear of referrals for siblings with Cafac lately?

While we are waiting we decided to sponsor a child through compassion Canada. We specifically asked for a child who has been waiting for sponsorship for over a year and one that lives near Addis. We received a beautiful picture this week of Lidya, a five year old girl living just north of the city. Our plan is to visit her when we are there! One of my good friends from work also just sponsored a little girl in Addis, so we’ll be making two stops if everything works out! We hope to add to our “compassion family” in Ethiopia and keep sponsoring kids there. It’s one way to give back and stay connected to Ethiopia in  a meaningful way for our whole family.